About Me

Hi I’m Mike. I wanted to create ‘ How To Fix A Breakup ‘ to help others in some small way through a really tough time in their lives.

Having experienced an unexpected break up of my own after a 5 year relationship, I was devastated and struggled through a very dark time. I was lucky to have friends and people around me, however, nothing makes up for not having a person in your life to share your life’s ups and downs with. Suffice to say, I ended up trawling the internet for any advice on how to cope better and what I should do to help me through it, all the while trying to go about my normal daily life.

After reading lots of blogs, forums and other sources of advice – both good and bad (and some very obscure!) – I finally found something which really took me by the hand and walked me through the steps I needed to take to be able to cope and calm the crazy inside me. I use the word crazy because that’s literally how I felt.  I could think of nothing else but why they didn’t want me and what I had to do to change or be better in some way. I couldn’t concentrate on my job and had no focus at work or with friends. I would spend my time texting or waiting for texts from them. I literally became obsessed with it all and it was eating me alive. Everything just seemed to fall apart in that short space of time.

As I was saying,  I found something that gave me exactly what I needed with lots of brilliant techniques and plans to build myself back up and show me what I was doing wrong at each moment and how to correct that behaviour. It gave me my confidence back and completely turned my life around. So much so, that I had time to reflect and I realised that I didn’t want to be with that person anymore after all and actively started to date again. (This is always interesting when you’ve been in a long term relationship!)

After a while my ex contacted me and began to try and start being all friendly again, but I asked them not to contact me. We weren’t right for each other and I’d moved on with my new found confidence. I’d got the power back and life was fun again! After a few months of dating and in only a short space of time being single, I found someone who I have lots in common with and would like to spend the rest of my life with! She’s perfect for me and I look back at my life now and think it all happened for a reason.

My goal now is to help others who have experienced something similar and are going through their own emotional upheaval, by making this life changing information become easier to find. I was just on my own, but if it’s a family break up where kids are involved, it makes it that much more important for me to do something to help if it’s possible. Don’t get me wrong, some people just aren’t good together, which I eventually found out. If that’s the case, you can learn to be single again and have fun looking for someone better matched to you. With T Dub as your guide, you’ll be prepared for either eventuality.

I hope this site helps you and I wish you every success with your relationships and your future. Don’t forget there absolutely is hope and help at hand and I’m doing better than ever because of it.

All the best, Mike T.