Hi I’m Mike. I wanted to create HowToFixABreakup.com to help others through what can be a truly life changing time.
Having experienced an unexpected break up of my own after a long term relationship, I was not in a good way and didn’t know what to do. I was lucky to have friends and people around me, however, nothing makes up for not having a person in your life to share your life’s ups and downs with. Suffice to say, I ended up trawling the internet for any advice on how to cope better and what I should do to help me through it, all the while trying to go about my normal daily life.
As I was saying, I found something that gave me exactly what I needed with techniques and plans to build myself back up and show me what I was doing wrong at each moment and how to correct that behaviour. It gave me my confidence back and completely turned my life around. So much so, that I had time to reflect and I realised that I didn’t want to be with that person anymore after all. It was then that I actively started to date again. (This is always interesting when you’ve just got out of a long term relationship!) I’d turned a corner and all the negative feelings I felt before melted away.
After a while my ex began to contact me and began to try to open a dialogue, but I did something I nerve would have thought possible before… I asked her to leave me alone. I realised with some time apart that we really weren’t right for each other and I’d moved on with my new found confidence. That was the last time we spoke and I’d finally got back in the driving seat of my life. My life was fun again! This showed me that she the techniques I’d learned were so powerful that she was texting me and chasing me to get me back. It really worked. Only thing is, I’d decided we actually weren’t right for one another. Actually after a few months of dating and in only a short space of time being single, I found someone who I have lots more in common with and would like to spend the rest of my life with! She’s perfect for me and I look back at my life now and think it all happened for a reason. It goes to show how well the lessons I’d learned were truly working and can work for anyone else too.
My goal now is to help others who have experienced something similar and are going through their own emotional upheaval, by making this life changing information become easier to find. I was just on my own, but if it’s a family break up where kids are involved, it makes it that much more important for me to do something to help if it’s possible. I’d love to help couples get back together if they definitely want that or move on if that’s the right course for them. Don’t get me wrong, some people just aren’t good together, which I eventually found out. If that’s the case, you can learn to be single again and have fun looking for someone better matched to you. With T Dub as your guide, you’ll be prepared for either eventuality, making up or breaking up! It doesn’t have to be a nightmare, you can be in control of your destiny either way.
I hope this site helps you and I wish you every success with your relationships and your future. Don’t forget there absolutely is hope and help at hand and I’m doing better than ever because of it.
All the best, Mike T. ©
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