Here’s my more detailed Magic of Making Up review, a book written by T W Jackson. Since I’ve actually read and implemented the advice and techniques from this ebook when I went through a break up, I wanted to show exactly why I recommend it to those who’ve recently been dumped, so you can make your own mind up.
At a time when I’d been left feeling devastated from a relationship break up, I wanted answers and needed help to stop obsessing over what had just happened and what I’d done to deserve it.
Little did I know that anything like this had even been written and that all I’d really expected to find would be people telling me how to just deal with it and just ride out the bad feeling until it finally went away years later.
I was somewhat prepared for and half expected that the “just deal with it” approach would be all I’d ever actually find. And why would I have thought any different, as that’s what everyone else I knew had to deal with in the past. They’d had partners leave them and they didn’t have anything I really wanted to hear . Sure people had there suggestions, which are never really based on anything concrete other than opinion.
Everyone I know that went through a break up, generally had to just cope with the pain and know that one day it goes away. That can take years to move past if you don’t end up getting back together. Not something I really wanted to happen to me, but I assumed I’d just have to go through the long painful road to happiness.
So when I finally did get online and start researching, I was blown away by the sheer amount of different information I was seeing everywhere… lots of very different viewpoints or perspectives. I think in the initial stages of a breakup, all you want to do is search for answers and I must have read so many articles, forum posts and blogs on relationship break ups and being dumped, that I knew this was something most people tend to go through at some stage in their lives and I most certainly wasn’t on my own with my feelings.
The Magic Begins
It was another similar evening of researching online sat at my desk, in my new single room in a new shared house that I stumbled across it and my whole outlook suddenly started to change within minutes. I’d found T Dub’s site and must have read through it 3 or 4 times that night, watching the videos on his page and taking it all in. Taking in the claims (which I wanted to believe so badly) and of course having scepticism about it.
The more I read the more I felt myself needing to let go and put my complete faith in T Dub.’s words. Seeing the number of testimonies on his site and knowing that he’d had so much experience with this kind of thing started to really cement my feeling that I was going to get hold of it. I think at the time he was into the tens of thousands of people that he’d already helped to get their relationships back together. For me that did give more credence to his claims of reuniting couples and rebuilding relationships and even families. However, this is the internet and people can and do make bold claims or exaggerate the truth. But, I took a chance…
I don’t remember how long it was after this, but I think it was the next day after sleeping on it and returning with a fresh mind that I pulled out my wallet and hit the ‘add to cart’ button.
On A Mission
You hit the ground running when you start working through The Magic Of Making Up, because T Dub has already shown you the first BIG step in the plan BEFORE you decide if you want to get his book. There’s a free video on his site called the ‘Opening Move’ which is all about writing a letter. This first step sets the ball rolling and you can already see how it’s going to benefit you. A full more detailed guide for writing the letter and other things to include are outlined within The Magic Of Making Up, but I guess there’s nothing to stop you writing it without having to get the book first.
When you get the book, it’ll take you on a hand-held journey explaining to you why your relationship ended and why it’s not over just yet, to getting your head on straight so you can sort out the problems and re-ignite the passion and desire. It gives you a sense of purpose again and grounds you. It covers everything from dating, lovers, getting back into your relationship, keeping the fun and love and avoiding old wounds or arguments.
The other facet to this book is that you may decide that the old relationship is not what you want after all. This is what happened to me after a bit of an epiphany. It can take you through the ‘moving on’ element as well. You feel like you regain the power back in your life, so much so that you can be without that person if you wish.
One of the first things you’ll learn is the Fast Forward Technique. This for me was a solidly consistent friend throughout the whole process. It teaches you how to release the physical pain of heartache (I know how strange that sounds!) – I was a bit sceptical at first as well… BUT boy does it work!! This is actually a technique you can use for lots of other areas of your life like for helping you quit smoking, to stop snacking and even dealing with a close bereavement. There a host of other real life applications, but, if all it does is take away the pain for this one purpose, for me it was well worth it just for that.
If you decide to get hold of a copy of The Magic of Making Up, you’ll also get some fantastic accompanying documentation as added free bonuses which really solidified my belief that T Dub is genuine about helping.
How To Boost Your Metabolism – Does exactly what it says and teaches you from scratch everything you need to know about your metabolism, Anabolism vs Catabolism and generally boosting your metabolism to aid fat loss, so you can appear fit and healthy in the quest to get back your ex. This will also keep you busy with the various instructional techniques to physically boost your metabolism.
Mind Magic – Psychological Tactics for Relationships – A 23 page report taking you through various mind magic tricks or tactics you can deploy during the whole process. There are some powerful lessons contained within these pages that you will be given examples of how best to use them, should you feel the requirement. This gives you more big guns at your disposal. These are really for use in conjunction with the main Magic of Making Up book and the general message it conveys. Some of you will definitely need to use some of them depending on the current state of your break up. Others can also be used further down the line.
The Clean Slate Method – Completely unpicks the inherent problems with making apologies and the seemingly all-to-common mistakes we make when speaking to partners. It shows how how our normal responses and behaviours can sabotage us and cause arguments that really don’t need to happen. This particular bonus is essential if you have been unfaithful or there has been a big indiscretion on your part. Even if not, it will completely transform future arguments before they happen, by preventing any ill-feeling between both you and your partner.
I give the Magic of Making Up a full 5 out of 5!
My goal at the outset was to get some perspective, learn what I had done wrong, learn what had ultimately caused the break up, stop obsessing about it, get myself stable and functioning properly again, stop the physical heartache and most of all to get my ex back. I achieved all of these and more in one way or another.
(I just want to add something here, my ex did indeed want to reconnect with me, after this, but I actually decided I no longer wanted to after taking a step back and clearing my head. So if I ‘d agreed, we’d have got back together if I’d followed through with it – there’s no doubt about that for me… I just chose another path when I realised she wasn’t the right person for me)
I also regained my sense of purpose in life, my freedom and independence, I learned a lot about relationships and how to help the ride become smoother for both people, I learned what causes problems in relationships and how to talk them through without defaulting to arguments (don’t get me wrong, I still occasionally argue with my new partner, just not about the petty things any more and they are over almost as soon as they started) I took up a new hobby, spent some quality time with friends and family and even decided to build this site as a testament to T Dub’s work.
For me the decision to buy the Magic of Making Up was one of the best decisions of my life. That’s not a small thing to say and actually thinking about that as I write this, just makes me feel more justified in recommending it to you. Don’t just take my word for it though, go check out the free videos on his site for yourself!
If you want to share any of your experiences with me and other readers of this site, please do get in touch. I’d love to start building up a page of readers stories, both successful and unsuccessful, so we have a true reflection of how it’s worked for others. Feel free to drop me a message below or using the ‘contact us’ page. I wish you all the best with your future and I hope you get what you want.
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