How to Reconnect with Your Ex
Just about everyone will go through a breakup with a significant other at least once in their lives. It is unfortunate, but true. Sometimes life can get in the way of your true feelings for one another and breakups can seem like the only way out. Whether you ended the relationship with a significant other or the other way around, breakups can be extremely difficult to deal with. One may feel lonely, depressed, and completely heartbroken after experiencing a breakup which is why, often times, the two involved rekindle their relationship.
Why reconnect with your ex?
Many people cannot understand why anyone would want to reconnect with their ex. Think about it, if you have been dating someone for years and feel like you know everything about them but one stupid fight left you two alone and heartbroken, would you want to go date someone new or reconnect with the person you truly love? If you love your ex, would you not want to see if you could try again? If you both feel like the relationship could have been saved, would it not be nice to see if it can?
Call your ex.
If you are devastated by the loss of your significant other and feel the only person you would ever be with is them, you should try calling your ex to see if they feel the same way. As a rule of thumb, give your ex time to figure things out and calm down if the breakup was rough. After a few weeks alone, if you still feel that you want to be with them, give them a call. I am not talking about texting or emailing your ex; I am talking about picking up your phone, dialing their number, and talking to them. Let your ex know how you are feeling and in many cases, your ex is feeling the same way you are. Remember though, you broke up for a reason and I am sure those issues would still need resolved.
Many couples who decide that getting back together could be a good thing are not prepared for what could happen again. If you breakup and get back together quickly after, your problems that you had before are still present. Nothing would have been resolved. The best thing you can do when trying to get back together with your ex is to start things out slow. Start by talking here and there. Start by hanging out with your common friends one evening in a group setting. Do not start out right where you left off or I can guarantee that your problems will rise again.
Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
Getting back together with your ex and having a happy life together is not guaranteed. Your ex may not want to start the relationship again and this is something you must prepare for. Along with anything in life, in order to protect your heart, you must hope for the best but prepare for the worst. If you are truly meant to be together, things will always work themselves out.
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